Today a friend calls you and starts to put a mutual friend down but you listen to the stuff that this individual is saying , so now what would you do to stop this from happening again. A) Just ignore it and say nothing. B) Tell this person that they should not offer any gossip because you don't believe in talking about others. C) Do you just add some more gossip to it. D) Make a excuse and not even bother to hear it. OK there are a few possible solutions but before you decide I want you to focus on how you would feel if you were the person that this call was about. I personally hate gossip it is the devils play house for doing harm to others and most of all I could only imagine that same person spreading the gossip, truly is not a friend at all. Friends are to support each other not condemn them . So think now,which would you do? My grandmother told me that "If you cant say nothing good about someone then it is best to say nothing at all."I must admit I do at times listen and this is only because it lets me know whom I can or never trust with anything private or important information. I firmly believe that those that talk about you the most are those that don't have a life of their own. Because we all may live in a glass house but tell me who will be the first to throw a stone and not receive several back in its place. Ladies we are all perfect...Ha Ha Ha well I know I am not crazy enough to say that I am better but I know that can be the best of most.
Semper Fi Wifeys .....Blog at you soon.